Who determines who deserves what?
It would be easy to say that it is us... with help from people around us, blessings from God, family and friends...
Of course, nothing is easy.... We have tried our best in our daily struggles to survive... We thought we have choices... but those choices are bounded by many rules, many obstacles and would require lots of effort...
Then, come risk... are we willing to take the risk?
This generally becomes chain of events which raise lots of IF.. then... ELSE... in our mind.... For what? to create more headache... chaos... and perhaps making life more miserable...
Hence, why question....
Take it slow... take it easy... things happen for a reason... we wouldn't know. God knows... Which is why we need to have faith...
What have we done so far? We've been kind, we've worked hard, we've played by the rules, we've done what we can with the resources we have, what do we get? headache, stress, and more stress... But... that's only in this world, temporary world.... So, take it easy...
It would take a lot of sacrifices, hard work and possibly failures to WIN! If what we have been doing all the while get us nowhere, then, change! That path does not work, so, pick another... It's already hard no matter what...
It seems that life can be unfair to kind people. That's OK. We have no power... only God Almighty...
But... we do have strengths to live and breath, and to face the life.....
Now, we have two choices to live through the day... am I going to be happy today or miserable today? So, pick your choice wisely and take a day at a time... It will become easier to handle one obstacle at a time...
Long open ended questions about our future and directions should be put aside until small matters that are bugging our life now are taken care off... Future and life mission /vision should be planned when our minds are clear and focused... and that's when positive energy will be flowing in our body.... The process can take some time... but... that's ok...
Everyone deserves to be happy... It's a matter of time... support and courage!